attended a memorial recently for a young man I knew. Most of the others there
were his agemates, buddies, past & present loves. And lots of dogs, a mass
of flowers, & abundant weed. Plus plates and plates of food from one of the
people closest to him because when all else fails at least there is food to
offer. I think she spent three days cooking; she’s a generous soul who every
day puts herself on the line for justice, kindness, connection.
I don’t even remember what we talked of; I admired the dead kid’s photos &
the portraits others had done. He had a kind of goofy charm & a great
smile. And he was around my younger kids’ ages.
I remember, what still haunts me, was looking round that ragged circle of
nomads and housies and dogs and all and thinking, hoping, wishing with all my
heart that I could keep them all safe.
nothing would hurt them. That no despair would cut their world into pieces.
That they would live, thrive, find their way through the thicket of youth, poverty,
ambition, drugs, hormones, frustration & joy & be the best they could.
is no safety in this world, at least not that I can find or give out.
I give out apples or oranges. At least there is food.
whales washed up on our beaches, juveniles. The science people tell me not to
worry, there have been years in which twenty have beached and died. Two is
nothing at all.
there was the great flood of krill washed up on our beaches the week before,
some still alive, some having mated, full of eggs. The scientists scratch their
heads about this one. Possibly the ocean is too warm? Possibly—they don’t say
this, but the thought comes—you know that radiation from Fukishima, still
leaking, still making its way to us along with the wreckage of broken
lives—could that be a cause?
bold Finnegan, a Manx cat, brings me a snake. The snake is not very happy.
Finnegan himself looks confused—what to do about the coiling, stretching
creature? I thank Finnie for the gift and take the snake from him. It is still
vigorous and seems unhurt. I tell the snake I’m sorry my cat grabbed it, and
take it to a shady nook near my little fish tub, where it quickly disappears, I
hope to safety.
only I could do that with everything.
world spins with accident, shock, revolt, and beauty.
couple weeks ago I watched an expert tree climber ascend into an eagle’s nest
and cradle the big eaglets in his arms, taking them to be measured and banded
and then returning them to their home 95 feet in the air. He is infinitely
patient and calm, talking to them in a quiet voice. They seem unflustered, and
within a week or so they will fledge, fly from the nest, go out into the
uncertain, beautiful world.
I watched a lot of cops take a protester from his perch in a wick draining
crane down in Willits (the wonders of video & computers). Oddly, it
reminded me of the treeclimber who tags eagles. The protestor, Will Parrish,
had that sort of calm, and for once the cops seemed calm as well. Though I
wonder why they needed dozens of cops for this one arrest (and the later one of
Amanda “Warbler” for trespass in an area unmarked by no trespassing signs).
are they afraid of, I wondered.
know what I fear, and what I try to face straight on. I’m old enough to have a
litany of losses and panoply of joys. I’ve seen change I could not have
imagined or forecast. I’ve seen social changes I thought were set—eroded.
Watching Wendy Davis live I saw in that rowdy, determined, brilliantly unruly
gallery a lot of fresh young faces and some very staunch women who might have
marched with me at the demonstrations of the 60’s and early 70’s. Oh, we
thought then we had won the way for the generations to come. Peace and freely
given (and protected) love. Barriers crashing.
didn’t know. The story is change, nothing certain but the beauty of fierce
the wetlands protests one friend asked “well, isn’t it a done deal?” implying
that a sane person would give up. But that isn’t an option, even when faced
with the power of money, corruption, governmental sleaze.
not an option, giving up.
we stand at a memorial, though we see the patterns before us, though the whales
beach, though young souls take their lives, we must go on. We must keep telling
the truth, offering our food or our solace, our passion, our wildness, cradling
this world as the treeclimber cradled that eaglet.
it could tear our hearts out.
do it anyway.
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